关于代沟 Generation gap
时间：2015-07-29 15:20:14 字数：来源：互联网
1. The problems of generation gap become more and more serious.
2. The causes of generation gap.
3. How to avoid the problem.
Nowadays, the problems of generation gap become more and more serious. The poor relationship between parents and their children is very common. Are these problems caused by the busy parents? Or, do the harsh family rules affect the relationship of parents and children?
Firstly, in most of the families in China both of the parents have to go out for work in order to earn more money to provide better environment for their lovely children. Unfortunately, this causes the rare communication between them and theft children, since these parents always take rest during leisure time. These parents and children cannot know deeply about each other and friction will appear. Secondly, parents who ask their children to be absolutely obedient is also one of the grave causes of the generation gap between them! They do not try to communicate with their children as their equals. Thus, misinterpretation of them may easily occur.
To solve these problems, the busy parents should sacrifice their spare time to communicate with their children actively and friendly to improve their relation. At the same time, they can also observe their childrens behavior at the same time in order to understand heir childrens personality as it can reduce the quarrel between them. Besides that, the parents should try to give up their absolute power in family so as lo make their children feel free to chat with them.
目前，代沟问题日益突出。父母和孩子之间的关系很差。这些问题是由忙碌的父母造成的吗？或者，父母和孩子的关系会影响父母和孩子的关系吗？
首先，在中国的大多数家庭中，父母都要外出工作，以便赚更多的钱，为他们可爱的孩子提供更好的环境。不幸的是，这会导致他们和盗窃儿童之间的罕见的沟通，因为这些父母总是在闲暇时间休息。这些父母和孩子们不能深入了解彼此，摩擦就会出现。其次，父母要求子女绝对服从，也是他们之间代沟的严重原因之一！他们不试图与他们的孩子沟通，因为他们的平等。因此，他们可以很容易出现误解。
为了解决这些问题，忙碌的父母应该牺牲自己的空闲时间与孩子们积极、友好地交流，以改善他们的关系。同时，他们也可以在同一时间观察孩子的行为，以了解继承人的性格，因为它可以减少他们之间的争吵。除此之外，父母应该尽量放弃他们的家庭绝对的权力，让他们的孩子和他们聊天。