Today in China,many families have only one child. So the children usually doted upon by all family members. Gradually some of them get used to depending on their parents and family members,as a? result they? lack the ability to face their lives by themselves. There are some ways to help children to be independent. First,the child should have a chance to see the world around him individually to understand that there are various people and competitions in their lives,and learn to? find his right position in the society only by individual efforts. Second,it is impossible to ask a child not to depend on parents at once. he parents may give the child enough help and space to make him feel comfortable. A child needs help from their families. Without any help,the child may lose his faith. Thirdly,parents can? help their children make their own decisions,which can challenge his ability to deal with problems. A child should be praised when he is successful or encouraged when he fails. To be independent is vital for the children,because no parents can go with their children for the whole life. Only an independent person can live and enjoy a full and meaningful life.
如今在中国，很多家庭只有一个孩子。所以孩子受到了所有家庭成员的宠爱。他们的父母和家庭成员，作为一个，他们逐渐习惯了一些？结果他们吗？缺乏面对自己生活的能力。有一些方法可以帮助孩子独立。首先，孩子应该有机会看到周围的世界，他单独地了解，有各种各样的人和他们的生活中的竞争，并学习？在社会上找到他在社会上的地位只有靠个人的努力。其次，不可能要求一个孩子不依赖父母。他父母可能会给孩子足够的帮助和空间让他感到舒适。一个孩子需要帮助的家庭。没有任何帮助，孩子可能会失去信心。第三，家长可以吗？帮助他们的孩子做出自己的决定，这可以挑战他处理问题的能力。当一个孩子成功或受到鼓舞时，应该受到表扬。独立对孩子来说是至关重要的，因为没有父母能和孩子一起生活。只有一个独立的人才能生活，享受一个完整而有意义的生活。