Dont Be Afraid to Say No 。Sometimes we have to say No to others when they ask us for help. Why? One situation may be that we are not capable of doing the things they ask us to do. The other situation may be that we are unwilling to do what they ask us to do, because their requests may be unreasonable or even illegal. On both occasions we should say directly to them: No. But the case is not always the same in our daily life. Some people are afraid to say No when they should say so. On the one hand, they are afraid of losing their faces. On the other hand they dont want to hurt others, such as their family members, relatives, friends or colleagues.
不要害怕说不，有时我们不得不对别人说不，当他们问我们的帮助。为什么？一种情况可能是我们不能做他们要求我们做的事情。另一情况可能是，我们不愿意做他们要求我们做的，因为他们的要求可能是不合理的，甚至是非法的。在这两种情况下，我们应该直接对他们说：不。但是在我们的日常生活中，这种情况并不总是一样的。有些人害怕说不，当他们应该这样说。一方面，他们害怕失去他们的脸。另一方面，他们不想伤害别人，比如他们的家人、亲戚、朋友或同事。
To say Yes when you should say No will eventually do you some harm. If you say Yes but fail to help them in the end because of lack of the ability, they may think you are not worthy of trust. If you help them do something bad or illegal, you will be punished for what you have done. So, dont be afraid to say No if necessary.
说是，当你应该说不，最终会给你一些伤害。如果你说是，但由于缺乏能力，他们可能认为你是不值得信赖的。如果你帮助他们做一些坏的或非法的，你将被惩罚你所做的。所以，不要害怕说不，如果有必要。