How parents Can Help Unfortunately, learning does not simply happen. As a mother and ex-teacher, I believe that good education involves not only the pupil and the teacher but also the parents. What, then, is the parents role? The atmosphere at home is bound to influence a childs attitude toward schoolwork. parents should be positive and notice what their children do well, rewarding success with praise and occasional treats. Under no circumstances should children be made to look foolish for their efforts. Tell a child often enough that he is lazy or stupid and he is likely to become an adult without self-respect. Listening is also vital. Children need to be taken seriously, no matter how unimportant their ideas may appear. It lets them know that their opinions and feelings matter. We must be observant: able to detect physical signs of unhappiness. A child who keeps on complaining of headaches or sickness may well be crying out for help. He may not be up to the work demanded of him. On the other hand, it could be an indication of boredom. On no account should a child feel unable to approach his parents. The lines of communication must be kept open. At the same time, we can help our children to become more independent, and consequently better learners, by giving them a few regular domestic chores that they can carry out successfully. In their free time, active rather than passive pleasures should be encouraged. In other words, reading is preferable to watching television. Above all, we must set an example. Children, in the end, will do as we do, not as we say. If we take an interest in hobbies, so will our children. As they grow older, homework must be their responsibility. We can be of most use not by doing it for them (even if we are able to) but by discussing the problem and helping them to approach it in the correct way. In addition, we must insure that the necessary space and equipment are provided. Teenagers need a quiet, well-lit area in which to study, with access to dictionaries and reference books. At this difficult age, although they may not show it, they also need to know that we care.
父母怎么能帮助不幸，学习并不是简单地发生。作为一名母亲和前老师，我相信良好的教育不仅包括学生和老师，而且还包括家长。那么，父母的角色是什么？家里的气氛会影响孩子对学业的态度。家长应积极注意自己的孩子做的好，奖励的成功与赞扬和偶尔的治疗。在任何情况下，孩子们都不应该为他们的努力看起来愚蠢。告诉一个孩子，他总是懒惰或愚蠢，他很可能成为一个没有自尊的成年人。听力也是很重要的。孩子们需要认真对待，不管他们的想法有多么不重要。让他们知道他们的意见和感情问题。我们必须注意：能够检测到不幸的体征。一个不断地抱怨头痛或病的孩子，可能会因为帮助而哭泣。他可能没有达到他要求的工作。另一方面，这可能是一个无聊的迹象。在任何一个孩子都不能接近他父母的孩子时。通信线路必须保持开放。同时，我们可以帮助我们的孩子变得更加独立，从而更好的学习者，通过给他们一些经常性家务，他们可以成功地进行。在他们的空闲时间里，应该鼓励主动而不是被动的乐趣。换句话说，阅读比看电视更可取。首先，我们必须树立一个榜样。孩子，最终，我们会做，而不是我们所说的。如果我们对兴趣爱好，我们的孩子也会。随着年龄的增长，家庭作业必须是他们的责任。我们可以用最有用的方式来解决问题，而不是通过讨论这个问题，并帮助他们以正确的方式来解决问题。此外，我们必须确保所提供的空间和设备。青少年需要一个安静的、有着充足的照明的区域来学习，可以使用字典和参考书。在这个困难的年代，虽然他们可能不显示，但他们也需要知道，我们关心。