It is generally acknowledged that university students have to be in possession of certain personal qualities so that they can be successful in modern society. Among these qualities are diligence, courage, honesty and leadership. personally, I believe that the sociability, or the disposition to communicate well with others, is the most important personal quality that a university student has to have. There is no denying the fact that the society today is featured by increasingly fine division of labor. It is hard for one to accomplish anything solely on himself or herself. Therefore, co-operation is indispensable in almost everyones daily life and work. To cooperate well with our workmates and other teams, we have to be able to communicate with them in an effective way. We should know how to think from the perspective of our partners and even our opponents; we should know when to insist and when to concede; and we should know how to make ourselves understood and how to persuade others. Sociability is of equal importance for a students sound growth in college. Actually, the four or five years in college are the crucial period of time in a persons development. It can even decide his or her eventual success. It is during this period that a student accumulates the bulk of knowledge to be used in his or her future job; it is during this period that a student absorbs life experience and lessons to be drawn upon in his or her future life; and, more important, it is during this period that a person establishes his or her basic network of friends. All this calls for sociability or the ability to communicate effectively with people. Lack of the ability to associate with others would not only result in failure in these aspects but also contribute to psychological problems and even committing suicide. Admittedly, other qualities are of great value in a persons success, but they all need communication as the basis. We can hardly imagine a courageous and diligent person achieving anything entirely by himself or herself. Without communication, honestly seems to go nowhere. And leadership definitely goes with communication. Taking all the above-mentioned into consideration, we may safely reach the conclusion that sociability is the most important personal quality that a university student has to possess if he or she wants to succeed in the present-day society. To develop the sociability, one has to be conscious of its importance and purposefully join some societies, clubs or associations, and participate actively in their activities. Besides, leaders and teachers in colleges should also attach importance to this quality and create as many chances as possible to enhance it.
普遍认为，大学生必须具有一定的个人素质，才能在现代社会中取得成功。在这些品质中，勤奋、勇气、诚实和领导力。就我个人而言，我认为社交，或倾向于与人沟通，是最重要的个人素质，大学生要有。不可否认的事实，今天的社会是由日益精细的劳动分工。一个人只靠自己或她自己是很难做到的。因此，在几乎所有人的日常生活和工作中，合作是不可或缺的。与我们的同事和其他团队合作，我们已经能够以有效的方式与他们交流。我们应该知道如何到想从我们的合作伙伴的角度，甚至我们的对手；我们应该知道当对坚持和当到承认；，我们应该知道如何来让自己被理解和如何来说服他人。社交能力是高校学生的健康成长同样重要。其实，大学的四、五年是一个人成长的关键时期。它甚至可以决定他或她最终的成功。它是在这一时期，学生积累大量知识被用在他或她未来的工作；它是在这一时期，学生吸收生活经验和教训，借鉴他或她未来的生活；和，更重要的是，它是在这一时期，建立一个人他或她的基本网络的朋友。这一切都要求社交或与人有效沟通的能力。缺乏与他人交往的能力不仅会导致这些方面的失败，而且还会导致心理问题，甚至导致自杀。诚然，其他素质在一个人的成功中是很有价值的，但他们都需要沟通为基础。我们很难想象一个勇敢和勤奋的人实现完全由自己或自己的任何事情。没有沟通，说实话，似乎没有任何地方。领导一定会与沟通。考虑上述所有因素考虑进去，我们可以得出结论，社交是最重要的个人品质，大学生必须具备如果他或她想成功在当今社会。培养社交能力，必须意识到它的重要性，有目的地加入一些社团，俱乐部或协会，并积极参与他们的活动。此外，高校的领导和教师也要重视这一素质，创造尽可能多的机会去增强它。