Children will be happy when their family environment is not confusing, and you may as well be sure that their happiness does not simply rely on being richer, safer and healthier. In some countries, children being spoiled one way or another do not appear to be as happy as they are thought to be, due mainly to their parents wrong attitudes concerning respect and discipline. It is possible that you could make your child happier if you could remember to act like an adult and not a child, and also as a boss and not as a friend that you intend to be. Naturally, father and mother are responsible for making a child as happy as possible by being a parent in the traditional sense of the word Too often you are inclined to pretend to be like a child to get your child to like you, which is no less than confusing to an immature mind. Chances are that you might be viewed as a child rather than a parent, not knowing that a child actually needs an adult Dad and Mom in the normal environment. By and by, your child will not respect you, and the lack of respect does not generate happiness because your child needs you to be a parent, not a child. At this point, a happy child is one who takes the advantage of normal parenting, far from playing a childish role. That means that while you must listen to your children and not to ignore them, you should never forget playing the role of a a kissing parent and a scolding parent on different occasions. Likewise, a child is not happy if discipline is missing at home. You ought to act like a boss and tell your children when they do wrong and correct them, and even punish them if necessary, because this could help make a child happier at heart. It may be said that a happy child is one who is taught to distinguish what is the right thing to do and what is not. In other words, young children in particular need parents to have authority to run the family government properly, otherwise the situation might turn out to be confusing sometimes. These days, there are cases in which children seem to be in charge, as this can be seen in the way parents obey their children. Also, it is not uncommon nowadays that the parent-child relationship is apparently based on peer friendship rather than family discipline, thus allowing a child to feel like an unhappy commander-in-chief in the family. As an adult and boss, both parents are supposed to understand that their children could be even happier if they are asked to follow the rules regarding respect and discipline. Of course, money, safety and health are always important to childhood happiness; nevertheless, a child should be treated strictly as a child without causing any confusion. For that matter, you cannot expect a very confused child to be very happy, can you?
孩子们会很高兴当他们的家庭环境是不混乱的，你也可以肯定，他们的幸福不单纯依赖于更丰富，更安全，更健康。在一些国家，孩子被宠坏的一种方式或另一个不似乎是一样的快乐，因为他们被认为是，主要是由于他们的父母的错误态度，尊重和纪律。这是可能的，你可以让你的孩子更幸福，如果你能记得像一个成年人，而不是一个孩子，也作为一个老板，而不是你想成为的朋友。自然，父亲和母亲都负责为让孩子尽可能快乐的是传统意义上的字母常常你倾斜到假装要成为像一个孩子来让你的孩子喜欢你，这是不少于混淆一个幼小的心灵。很可能你会被看作是一个孩子而不是一个家长，而不是一个孩子在正常的环境中需要一个成年的爸爸和妈妈。你的孩子不会尊重你，而缺乏尊重也不会产生幸福，因为你的孩子需要你做父母，而不是孩子。在这一点上，一个快乐的孩子是一个利用正常的人，远远没有发挥幼稚的作用。这就意味着，当你必须听你的孩子，而不是忽略他们，你应该永远不会忘记扮演的角色，一一个吻父母和一个父母在不同的场合。同样地，孩子不快乐，如果纪律是在家里失踪。你应该像一个老板，告诉你的孩子，当他们做错了，纠正他们，甚至惩罚他们，如果有必要，因为这可以帮助使一个孩子更幸福的心。可以说，一个快乐的孩子是一个被教导来区分什么是正确的事情，什么是不。也就是说，年轻的孩子尤其需要父母有权正确地管理家庭，否则，情况会变得混乱。这几天，孩子们似乎是在收费的，因为这可以在父母的方式中看到他们的孩子。同时，这是不寻常的今天，亲子关系显然是基于同行的友谊而不是家庭管教，从而使孩子觉得不高兴总司令在家庭。作为一个成年人和老板，父母都应该理解他们的孩子可能会更快乐，如果他们被要求遵循的规则，尊重和纪律。当然，金钱、安全和健康对童年的快乐总是很重要的，然而，一个孩子应该严格地对待孩子，而不引起任何混乱。对于这个问题，你不能指望一个非常困惑的孩子是非常高兴的，你能吗？