When we retrospect how our knowledge and thoughts have come into being, we will easily find that, besides those we have learned from schools, we are always imitating and learning from others, who are mainly parents, friends and those we respect rather than those we hate, disgust or comtempt. Its always easy for us to learn much more from those whose views we share than from those whose views contradict ours. Firstly, disagreement always arouses stress and enimity. When two persons or two groups cannot achieve agreement on some subject, what succeeds is always a hot dispute. The two parts stick to their own point of view and trying vainly to convince the other that they are totally wrong. However, the two parts are always putting to much emphasis on defeat the other, while having no time or no will to staidly analysis the others point of view and to learn from it. On the other hand, when we share views with someone, we are always satisfied and enlightened. So we are ready to listen to others carefully. When we find our views have some subtle differences compared with others, we are likely to think over it: Am I right? Why there are differences? How did the others view come into being? Have I omitted something important? Or am I not open-minded enough to accept new ideas? Such kind of comparison and introspect help us to correct our thoughts and thus help us in learning to be more mature and wise. However, if we only learn from those whose views are shared by us, we are in dangere that our minds and thoughts will be narrower and narrower, since we never accept views deviated from ours. Such kind of self-confident tampers our progress in studying rather than help us. people are always thinking themselves are the most correct while others are more or less wrong if the views are not congruent. But if we can rationally analysis those views which are far away from ours, we have the chance to explore a totally new world filled with inspiring thoughts. What is important is not whether those different views are right or wrong; it is crucial how others achieve such kind of views. By meditating on these, we may open new ways to our minds and thus become more open-minded and fair. In sum, its from those who we share views with that we are improved, while from those who we contradict views with that we get chances to avoid a dead-end or narrower pathes of thoughts.
当我们回顾如何我们的知识和思想已经形成，我们将容易找到，，除了那些我们从学校学到的，我们都总是模仿和学习其他的，谁是主要的父母，朋友和那些我们尊重而不是那些我们恨，厌恶和蔑视。对我们来说，我们更容易从那些我们所分享的观点，而不是那些与我们意见相悖的人一起学习。首先，分歧总是引起应力和enimity。在某些问题上，当两家人或两家集团不能达成协议时，成功总是一个热议。两部分坚持自己的观点，徒劳地试图说服对方，他们完全错了。然而，这两部分是始终把关注打败对方，而没有时间或没有将认真分析对方的观点，并从中学习。另一方面，当我们与别人分享意见时，我们总是满足和启发。所以我们准备好倾听别人的聆听。当我们发现我们的观点和其他人有一些微妙的差异时，我们很有可能会把它想得很好：我是不是？为什么会有差异？其他人的观点是如何形成的？我省略了重要的东西吗？或者是我不够开放，接受新的想法？这样的比较和反思有助于我们正确的思想，从而帮助我们在学习中更加成熟和明智的。然而，如果我们只从那些观点共享，我们学习，我们在dangere，我们的思想会越来越窄，因为我们不接受我们的观点偏离。在学习上而不是帮助我们自信我们的进步，这种篡改。人们总是认为自己是最正确的，而其他人则更多或更少的错误，如果这些意见是不一致的。但是，如果我们能够理性地分析那些远离我们的观点，我们就有机会去探索一个充满启发性思想的全新世界。重要的不是这些不同的观点是正确的还是错误的，而其他人如何实现这样的观点是非常重要的。通过对这些的思考，我们可以打开我们的心灵，从而变得更加开放和公平。总之，来自那些我们分享的观点与我们的改进，而从那些我们反驳的观点与我们有机会避免死角或更窄的路径思考。