In China, both of the parents have their jobs. With the development of economy, people tend to pursue high quality living conditions. Most of the parents try their best to offer their children comfortable circumstances, but they seldom have time to stay with their children. In my point of view, no matter how busy they are, they should make the best use of their time to stay with their children. First, the love between children and adults will be improved by spending more time on their children. Children could feel parents affection through the genial conversation and sharing their pleasure with them. Every time when parents take them to amusement park, help them to prepare their birthday parties, applaud for them when they are competing in the sports meeting, the time they spend with children will become treasure in their memories. Second, children need the direction from their parents. There are some wrong behaviors in our society such as dishonesty, corruption, violence and eroticism and so on. Children have weak resistance in defending this detrimental influence. In this case, parents instructions seem to be very important to childrens growth. parents should sit down and talk with them about what they should do and should not do. In addition, if parents often spend time in staying with their children, adults good behaviors will greatly influence their children. Here I do not deny that there are some disadvantages in spending too much time on children. Some parents restrict their children, and give them little freedom to develop their interests. Therefore, I emphasize that parents should educate and instruct their children appropriately in their spare time apart from their busy works.
在中国，双方的父母有自己的工作。随着经济的发展，人们往往追求高质量的生活条件。大多数的父母尽力给他们的孩子提供舒适的环境，但他们很少有时间和孩子在一起。在我看来，无论他们有多忙，他们应该充分利用自己的时间和孩子在一起。首先，儿童与成人之间的爱会花更多的时间对他们的孩子了。孩子能感受到父母的情感通过亲切交谈，并与他们分享他们的快乐。当父母带他们去游乐园的时候，帮助他们准备生日派对，为他们当他们在运动会上的竞争，他们花费的时间与儿童将成为他们最珍贵的回忆。其次，孩子需要父母的方向。我们社会有如不诚实一些错误的行为，腐败，暴力和色情等。孩子们在捍卫这一不利影响的抵抗力弱。在这种情况下，父母的指令似乎对孩子的成长很重要。父母应该坐下来与他们谈论他们应该做什么和不应该做的。此外，如果父母经常花时间留在自己的儿童，成人的良好行为将极大地影响他们的孩子。在这里我不否认有在花费太多的时间在孩子的一些缺点。有些家长限制自己的孩子，给他们一点自由发展自己的兴趣。因此，我强调的是，家长应教育和指导孩子适当在业余时间除了繁忙的工作。