Everyone needs advice at times, and most people ask their peers for help. However, with age comes a greater variety of life experiences, which give one the wisdom and ability to see things in perspective. Therefore, it is far better to receive advice from friends who are older than you than from peers. First, older friends have more real-world experience, so their advice has greater value. They can indeed give important advice on situations you have not experienced. For example, when deciding what college to attend, my older brother asked his friend in college where he should study. His friend said he should think about the financial aspects, so he suggested finding an inexpensive college where my brother could also get a scholarship. Thanks to his older friends advice, my brother could be saved from having a heavy student debt in the future. Older people have made mistakes, so they can help their younger friends avoid the same ones. It is often best to ask older friends for their opinion before making a big decision. One time, when I had a choice between playing baseball for the summer and going to a camp for three weeks, I asked my older friend for help. He said they play baseball at summer camp and I would be sad if I did not go there. Once in the past, he had decided not to go to camp and had joined a soccer club instead. All of his friends had a great time at camp while he was miserable playing soccer without them. His mistake helped me avoid making one myself. Older friends have more experience dealing with relationships, so they know how to deal with others very well. You can always expect an older person to have a past experience similar to a situation you are experiencing. My girlfriend was mad at me a while ago, but I was too afraid to ask her why. My older friend said that I should ask her directly and that she would tell me if she really liked me. Everything worked out fine thanks to my friends advice. Older people definitely know more about relationships than younger people do.
每个人都需要不时的建议，而且大多数人要求他们的同伴寻求帮助。然而，随着年龄的增长，各种各样的生活经验，这给了一个智慧和能力，看事情的角度看。因此，最好是收到来自朋友的意见比你的同龄人比同行的好。首先，老朋友有更多的真实世界的经验，所以他们的建议有更大的价值。他们确实能给你不曾经历的情况给予重要的建议。例如，当我决定要参加什么大学时，我的哥哥在大学时问他应该学习什么地方。他的朋友说，他应该考虑财务方面，所以他建议找到一个廉价的大学，我的兄弟也可以得到奖学金。多亏了他的老朋友的忠告，我哥哥在未来能有一个沉重的学生债务。老年人都犯错误，所以他们可以帮助他们的年轻朋友避免相同的。在做出重大决定之前，最好先向老朋友提出意见。有一次，当我在打棒球的夏天和去一个营地三个星期的选择时，我问我的老朋友的帮助。他说他们在夏令营里打棒球，如果我不去，我会很伤心的。过去，他决定不去参加训练营，而是参加了一个足球俱乐部。所有的朋友都过得很开心，而他却很惨，在没有他们的比赛中踢足球。他的错误帮助我避免了自己的错误。年长的朋友有更多的处理人际关系的经验，所以他们知道如何处理别人的关系。你可以期待一个年纪较大的人有类似于你正在经历的经历。我的女朋友一段时间以前就生我的气，但我不敢问她为什么。我的老朋友说，我应该直接问她，她会告诉我，如果她真的喜欢我。一切都很好，感谢我朋友的忠告。老年人肯定比年轻人更了解人际关系。有时人们面临困境，因此有必要得到一些建议。我总是问我的朋友，我的年龄比那些比我大的人能给我有用的建议，比我大的好。我的朋友和我的年龄都很好，这让他们在最好的位置给我建议。这意味着他们的建议更可能与我的情况有关。例如，我一度担心在科学课上做演示，因为我在别人面前紧张地讲话。我的同学都知道这一点，所以她告诉我要想象我只是和她说话。她的忠告使我保持镇静，我得到了一个极好的成绩。认识你的人可以根据你的具体问题来调整他们的建议。因为我的朋友们，我的年龄也和我一样有相同的经历，他们知道我对我的问题的感受。事实上，他们能理解我，更容易。去年，我的父母拒绝让我参加一个学校舞会，因为我的宵禁是晚上10点，我感到很不安，但我最好的朋友，金和我一样的年龄，安慰我，说他以前有同样的问题，所以他能理解我的感受。他还说，我的父母只为我担心，希望我是安全的。我仍然不高兴，但至少我可以看到我父母的观点。有类似的经历可以帮助你的朋友更好地理解你。很多时候，我都有问题，都与我的年龄组相关，所以很自然地向我的朋友求助。在同一时间有同样的问题可以是好的，因为每个人都可以互相帮助。这几天，我的朋友们都很担心，因为我们很快就完成了高中毕业了。有些朋友想上大学，而有些朋友却不确定。我们经常聚在一起讨论如何做，这让大家感觉更好。因为我们有同样的问题，所以最好和我的人谈谈。总之，我觉得从人的建议，我自己的年龄是最好的，因为事实上，他们有相同的问题和经验，了解我的感受，并了解我最好。既然他们对我很了解，他们知道哪一种建议可以帮助我解决我的问题。